Because everyone is....

Starting from childhood we are used to this proverb "Change the only thing that never changes"

Our school,teachers,friends, home, favorite heroes everything changed. Grocery shop changed into super market,radio was replaced with FM,desktop replaced by laptops. Everything changed.

Only thing that never changed is Indian lifestyle.

Yes Indians are the best artist,scientists,sports persons. But middle class people keeps on living the same life.Just think about story of  Gandhi,Buddha,Mother Theresa, Sachin Tendulkar,etc., all of them doesn't have similar life style.It may be irrelevant to compare those people.But these are legends who changed the routine lifestyle at some point of their life.

Indian life-cycle:

Born in a middle class family.

Being as creative as possible until 5 years of age.

Then parents admit you in a so called reputed school in your city (EM).

Learn some unnecessary stuff for 8 years.

Then you join some tuition for sslc preparation.

People will judge your knowledge only by these scores.

After a big race you will choose first group.

          After joining first group- on the first day of your school

           Teacher :"Why did you choose this group?"

            You      :"mmmm" (mind voice: Everyone did this so i also did the same)

Then everyone falls in love so you also do the same

Everyone like a star , you also like the same

Everyone again goes to tuition, you also join tuition (to score good marks in +2)

Everyone Join engineering you also do the same

Then you want a job because everyone has a job

Then you need a life partner because everyone has a life partner

Then you need flats or a home for the same reason

Then you need kids for the same reason

Then go to the first step and follow the same procedure for your kids

At some point you need death , Again for the same reason

Kindly stop being a coward. 

Take some meaningful risks to change your life.

Don't be a follower.

Be a leader. 

Life is a book to be explored , not manual to be followed.

P.S: If you really love being a follower, just go on. Nobody will stop you.